Dry 2025

The Year I Chose Life without Alcohol

Dry in 2025 is a year made up of small, honest observations — the kind you only catch when you’re not half‑distracted by a drink in your hand. It’s what happens when you remove one variable and suddenly realize how many others were quietly running the show.

These chapters aren’t about falling apart or putting yourself back together. They’re simply the real, sometimes anticlimactic, sometimes unexpectedly meaningful moments that surface when you’re paying attention. Growth, it turns out, is less “giant revelation” and more “oh… that makes sense.”

This isn’t a story of reinvention. It’s a story of noticing what was there all along.

Closing Time
Alicia LaMendola Alicia LaMendola

Closing Time

I loved drinking — the taste, the vibe, the whole ritual — but after a few Dry Januarys and absolutely none of the magical benefits people rave about, I got curious. What would happen if I actually went longer? A well‑timed algorithm nudge later, and I found myself considering a dry year for the first time ever.

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Shaken Not Stirred
Alicia LaMendola Alicia LaMendola

Shaken Not Stirred

Dry 2025 was easy when it was cold and miserable outside — hot tea doesn’t tempt you the way a beach full of people partying like it’s 1999 does. Nothing exposes the chaos of casual drinking like being the only sober one in the room. Did I want to throw in the towel and join the “fun”? Absolutely. But was it worth trading in my self‑respect? Not even close.

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500 Days of Sober
Alicia LaMendola Alicia LaMendola

500 Days of Sober

When the year ended, I wasn’t sure what I’d learned — or if I’d learned anything at all. But something about reaching day 500 made me pause, look back, and realize the story wasn’t as simple as I thought. What comes next… well, that’s the part I’m still figuring out.

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